Spirit attachments on people with whom we have close emotional ties with such as; wife,
husband, partner, boyfriend, girlfriend, spirits will continually try to separate the possessed
person from all those around them. And that is not a wife’s tale, it is written in the
Torah and the Holy book of Quran. The entity called the Devil, Satan and his demonic
followers work around the clock to separate humans, cause doubts and break up marriage
due the use of multiple factors and deceits.
The prince of lies never sleeps , and gather all his energy to destroy humanity
as he is the arch enemy of humans.
This situation is especially difficult when we are dealing with a partnership or marriage.
Such a close relationship requires a strong commitment on both sides cementing
the relationship. We should consider what consequences a spirit possession
will have for those who live with the person who experiences spirit attachment.
The entity will start breaking your relationship slowly by making sure that
you are addicted to things you like, gambling, games, negativity, drugs and alcohol,
and anything else that can bring you stress, anxiety, depression and death.
Then it will work to isolate you from others, and make your family
and friends hate you due to your bad habits and foul mouth.
You start to drift away from your loved one, your love and intimacy will suffer ,
you will be careless, living in a nutshell and building a barrier,
walls around you, you become so defensive and angry, or go with the flow and defocus.
If there are children in the relationship this will be a difficult time for them.
Children need both parents and even the temporary absence of one
parent presents a very serious problem for them that can affect their entire later life.
Children constantly ascribe to their parents the role of a supreme authority,
or God. This is, of course, not a correct perception, since their real parent is not
the physical parents but the Almighty, but from a disturbed relationship
with the parents always results in a disturbed relationship with God in later life.
Hence the parent who lives with the possessed spouse must try to substitute
both parents for the children. This is not easy, of course, nor entirely possible,
but one must try and give the children hope that nothing lasts forever and
that this situation, like any other, is only temporary and will eventually change.
Try to talk to a clinical psychologist, first to your doctor so they can refer
you to a right path, a psychiatrist, a social worker, a marriage counselor,
as there are so many life lines and those who can help you in your difficult time.
Another problem in a relationship is intimacy between partners.
This is a serious issue because a relationship with a possessed person
does not involve two people, but three, or more depending on how many
spirits are around our possessed partner. Thus, when we seek intimacy
we are not only directing it to our partner, but also to the spirits around them.
You might find this strange , but trust me when I say this . We are not alone.
A very big role here will be played by who the possessing spirit is.
If it is someone who does not accept us (for example:
a mother-in-law who we had a terrible relationship with when
she was alive), the situation will of course be much more difficult,
because the spirit will have a much stronger negative impact on ourselves.
It will try with all its might to build a strong repulsive emotion in
the possessed person, and it will also send negative emotions in
our direction. Very problematic, of course, is the issue of sexuality.
Here also it will take place between several souls rather than two.
A possessed person can easily fall into addictions. Their emotional situation
is extremely difficult. With the connection of the spirits to them,
their emotional life is in ruins and has moved to the level of very low,
negative emotional states such as resignation, irritation, anger, hatred or fear.
The possessed person therefore lives in very severe suffering
and wants to relieve themselves by trying to forget, at least temporarily,
their inner conflict. They may resort to various kinds of drugs,
the most readily available being alcohol, but they may also be psychotropic
drugs such as tranquilizer pills or even street drugs.
As the possessed person becomes weaker due to the fact that the spirit
continually takes away some of their life energy, the possessed
person’s ability to cope with even ordinary daily challenges,
let alone overcome difficult responsibilities in the workplace,
for example, also decreases.
The possessed person’s partner, despite all the possessed person’s problems
coming from the possession, must show their partner constant
understanding and compassion. This is of course very difficult as
the possessed person often directs a lot of negative emotions towards the partner.
However, constantly remember that the possessed person is in
a state of great distress, even if they try not to show it on the outside.
The partner will need a tremendous amount of patience not to get
into any disputes or even arguments with the possessed person,
as this will only make the situation worse for both of them.
This is because the spirits will gladly use such situations as a way to
rob the partner and the possessed person of their life energy.
Besides, we should remember that the scale of such a problem is very
serious, it occurs much more often than most of us think; it just remains
silent behind closed windows and doors. But every human problem has a solution.
Unfortunately, there are cases in which spirit possession occurs in children.
Such a situation is extremely difficult for parents because of the
love that every parent has for their child. The child will often display
severely negative traits that are a complete negation
of the child’s nature and his/her usual behavior.
Children are most often possessed by deceased people belonging
to their own family. The deceased are often afraid to leave the
physical life sphere and try to prolong their stay on this plane as
much as possible. The spirit usually has only a short time, about
forty days, Some leave in the first 7 days. to decide to depart into
the hereafter. During this time, it has enough energy to leave on its own
(after this time it will need the help of an exorcist).
When the time limit expires, it begins to lose energy and
will have to seriously consider where to get it from.
From the perspective of the spirit, the best chances for survival in this
situation are guaranteed by children. Children have boundless amounts
of energy, which is what the spirit most cares about.
Moreover, in this case the spirit can continue to be close to its family.
After some time, the spirit will want to participate in
family life not only passively, as an observer of the child’s life,
but will also want to take an active part in physical life. Thus,
it will seek to take control of the child’s psyche so that it gains
the ability to manifest itself on a physical level, using the child’s physical body.
We can then begin to recognize in the child the characteristics
of the deceased person. Every person has certain characteristic traits –
the way they move, the way they react to things, the type of gaze,
and so on. We can begin to recognize these characteristics in a child.
We may even be glad, subconsciously, that a part of our grandfather or grandmother is still with us.
We then feel less pain at the loss of a beloved loved one.
God does not allow the deceased to remain in the world of the living.
Therefore, there will be suffering to awaken not only the deceased,
but also the living, from this unnatural state of affairs.
That’s why they always say, let it go, and from God come to
God will go and we all shall be in the same situation one day.
The spirit that does not go to the Light and remains close to
physicality resides in a field of strong negative emotions such as anger,
hatred, and fear. These become part of its life, and there is no escape from it.
Such emotions will therefore, through the spirit, be transferred
to the child it possessed. This will cause our previously well-behaved
child to become more and more emotionally unstable, and to
start displaying strong or even very strong negative emotions outwardly.
We can try to calm the child down, but it will not have lasting results.
The child knows they are behaving incorrectly,
but there is nothing they can do about it. These emotions just remain with them.
They can’t get rid of them or control them. Of Course there are multiple
psychological and behavioral disorders that can be corrected by
a trained psychologist or a psychiatrist, but if they cannot correct
or help the child, you end up in an empty circle and a bunch of pills.
This behavior will lead to countless conflicts not only within the family circle,
but wherever our child interacts with others. We may hear that
the daycare center wants to expel our child because the daycare workers can’t handle
the child’s outbursts of destructive emotions, or that the child is
aggressive toward other children. Such aggressive behavior can be very strong;
a possessed adult has partial control over it, but a child unfortunately does not at all.
Extreme situations can also occur at home. The child may lash out
at household members with great hatred, especially if the
possessing spirit was in a state of conflict with any of the household
members during their lifetime. There are cases where the child’s behavior
is not only unbearable, but the child actually becomes a real threat.
We have had people come to us for help who were afraid to sleep under
the same roof with a child, because the child would reach for sharp
tools with the intention of using them against adults.
The spirit removal process leads to an improvement in the situation.
The child’s behavior may improve dramatically. However, it can also
happen that the possessing spirit is someone with whom we have
unresolved emotional issues, and therefore this type of conflict
develops even though the deceased is no longer physically present.
In such a case, the adult towards whom such attacks are directed verbal,
emotional, or physical must also do unavoidable work. In this instance,
the path to freedom is through both the removal process
(performed by the healer), and by forgiveness and understanding
(done by the person involved).
Parents of a child who experiences possession need to remember
that the reactions they notice are not those of their child, but are
in fact a manifestation of the emotions of the other personality
that has somehow managed to possess the child. Therefore,
they should not “take it personally” and be distressed by their
beloved child’s malicious reactions to them.
The child still loves them, but the possessing spirit does not necessarily do so.
Unfortunately, it sometimes happens that the spirit of, for example,
a mother-in-law with a great desire for revenge on her son-in-law,
but unable to harm him directly, will seek an opportunity to
carry out revenge with the help of a child to whom she may have access.
These are not, of course, malicious and deliberate actions on
the part of the spirit. It simply allowed itself to be surrounded by
negative emotions during its physical life on earth, and now
these negative emotions demand to be discharged.
You must surround the person with love and respect,
good friends, let them watch good movies and read good books,
get them away from negativity and plant the seed of faith in them
without making them fanatic. Show them love and kindness,
teach them about it, teach them about forgiveness and
understanding, about kindness to all life forms, and how
to be balanced, and then you will get a peace of mind.
Pets, and objects such as toys also have their own share of these
possessions, from the owner who passed away leaving his or
her dog , cat , toys or any other pets or items that they love so much ,
they will attach to them strongly, especially if that person does not
have a child and lives with the pet for a long time.
I saw an experience during my years of paranormal investigations.
In this matter you have to make sure that you show respect
to the owner spirit and trust me they are around, show them
that you are not take over or the new owner but you are a helper,
a guardian to assist their pets and make them happy, make that loud and clear
and never harm the pet or get angry at it, trust me you don’t want to do that.
A clear intention and visualization can help guide the universal life force
energy efficiently. However, our perception connects
the spiritual approach with the physical results.
In general, the universal life force energy consists of four main elements:
The more time and effort you put into cleansing your mind, body,
and spirit, the healthier your subtle fields become.
This process will also clear your visualization and perception
ability while aligning them with the universal truth and divine manifestations.
A clear mind leads to a smooth visualization process. In turn,
this will improve your perception on both spiritual and energetic levels.
Having a clean perception results from working to
maintain a healthy intention, intuition, and visualization.
You’ll perceive their imbalances, inner qualities, and even spiritual
potentials while becoming more aware of their needs and clear on how to guide them in their spiritual journey.
Of course, this is easier said than done.
Our overall balance and perception often fade in front of our daily lives.
We all need to stop and relax and reassess our needs, our spiritual target,
and balance life. That’s when it’s time to take a step back and recharge.
Gather all your spread-out energetic and spiritual pieces, and put them back in their rightful place.
It’s the best way to maintain a constant balance and be in service to others.
That can be done by daily prayers and daily contact with the
Creator of this universe God himself, and worship him with all your heart and do not worship others.
Spending time in nature and allowing the surroundings to heal
you at every level can be one of the most impactful things you do for your
overall well being. This can also be through your pet getting your pet to go out
with you in the garden and nature , the cool air can heal and strengthen
the immune system for a while , nature can provide a great power
of healing that God himself put into nature.
Nature is a steady and clear manifestation of the universal life force energy.
It’s often enough to help you get your mind back on track
and even heal your soul to a certain degree.
Intention is an essential first step when it comes to channeling the
universal life force energy. It’s important to know what you want in
advance and be clear about how you’re going to get there.
Intuition should come next because this will help guide you through any
obstacles that might pop up along the way.
Visualization is the step that brings your intentions into focus.
When you can construct a clear image of the process in your mind,
it will become much easier to achieve your goal.
Perception will help fine-tune your focus and channel the energy
more effectively. It’s the pathway to manifesting your
spiritual connection into the physical plane.
So stay focus , clear your mind, worship God, pray daily, do act of kindness ,
what ever you can do, to any living things, or to the nature,
don’t judge , stay in state of peace of mildness ,and always
reassess yourself, take it day by day and be patient, and remember that God is with you every second.
Steve Ramsey, PhD.