Feeling plagued by negativity, negative people in our lives, negative thoughts, is common,
especially during stressful time such as nowadays dealing with covid situation, sickens, and death, lost of work and income.
Our brains are hardwired to assimilate and focus on negative feedback .Psychologist call this negativity bias.
This is why we recall insult, finger pointing at us, back stabbing, and other negative elements in our lives better
than praise and positive feedback, and that is why past trauma are so difficult to overcome.
Don’t we all want to appear perfect in the eyes of others, particularly loved ones? I believe that everyone has had this desire at least once in their life. The fact is that it’s impossible to be a “perfect” person for everyone you meet because they have their own ideas on what constitutes perfection. That’s why been yourself being genuine is easier because you no longer need to stress yourself out trying to please everyone. Just be yourself and let others see you for who you are without affecting them.
The reality of the last two years has been marked by a constant barrage of information about the spread
of a disease that could bring death. Fake news that can kill you, doubts, anger and frustration, people
closing their shops, file for bankruptcy, died, and even divorced because of this evil virus.
The fear of death is the most deep-seated fear that exists. It touches directly on our deepest motivations.
Unfortunately, for many this motivation is the survival instinct — the fight to maintain physical life.
This instinct manifests itself in the vast majority of our daily activities when we go to work to earn a living,
when we mine the earth’s treasures without looking at the damage we are doing to Mother Earth, when
we argue with our neighbors about cutting the branches of the their branches that hanging on your side.
This instinct, or fear of death, is one of the main components of the daily battle that many of us fight.
Then we think what will happen after death?
Unfortunately, most of us do not have such awareness. We have not yet gained absolute certainty or evidence
that such further life exists for us. But some of us who believe in God and his promise and red the scriptures
and his holy books know some facts about after death.
A positive mindset does much more than raising ones spirit. Scientists believe that positivity improves
our overall health and possible extends our lives.
God created people around us for a reason and that reason is to see who among us can come closer to him,
he created us to worship him and help each other, know each other and fear God in every second
of our life as he is watching and knowing what we do.
He created us to help each other, be friends, and some might give us trouble, some might backstab us,
some to deal and work with, and so on but the main reason beside worshiping God , God want to see if
we will make God is our main focus or the material world, money, family, friends etc. It is very tricky
as life is all about family, friends and those who we love. But God want to test our love to him and faith in him.
Some people are simply unable to embrace the opportunity to pause and reflect. Therefore, they tend to live in a constant state of anxiety and panic. WE must do our part in this universe with imagination, positive thinking, determination, preparation, and good conduct to get and attract the positive result. And manifest our dream. Then Covid come as a side distracter bring with it the fear of death.
This naturally creates a very unfavorable situation. As we’ve discussed, surrounding ourselves with any negative emotion inevitably brings destructive results. If such anxiety is constantly with us, it will powerfully attract to us anxiety of the same kind. We will, therefore, attract beings that are very afraid of death and dying.
And among the spirits of dead people there are countless who are afraid of this, paradoxically, because these beings have already gone through the transformation called death. Unfortunately for many of them nothing has changed, many of them do not even know that they have already died physically. They are still afraid of understanding that their physical body is already dead.
If we fear death, and it is the strongest fear of physical man, then we will very strongly attract the souls of dead people who fear the same thing. Spirits fear this much more strongly than we do, because the emotions of the astral/emotional world are much stronger than those we experience in the physical world. Therefore, for many of us, a spiral of ever deepening state of fear / panic is created. This leads to a wave of possession by the spirits of the dead with all the suffering that possession entails.
What happens in your brain can have an impact on your body. A positive outlook can help you lower blood pressure, reduce the risk of heart attack, maintain healthy blood sugar levels, effect your mode and productivity, and balance some of your hormones and enzymes.
When facing our physical mortality, we gain the opportunity to reflect deeply on the reality in which we live. We stop rushing ahead blindly in search of the next thing to buy or accomplish. As we’re reminded of the fact that the physical body is not eternal, we are given the chance to stop and reflect on the purpose of time on earth. What is it that we need to do and learn here? Generally speaking, we are to learn love, but I will not go into this topic in depth in this post due to the immensity of its volume.
The chance to stop and reflect is one of the best things that could have happened to us as humanity. It is the only way to complete freedom from fear and, consequently, freedom from all suffering. Those who move in this very direction feel that they are afraid less and less. Moreover, they feel increasingly certain of the existence of higher dimensions.
Instead of feeling guilty and pity for the poor man in the street we should take a positive action to feel compassion with the suffering person. We see all his pain and think, “I can see that you are in a very difficult situation that is completely overwhelming you and creating a great deal of pain. But I know that the power that gives you life is God.
He has put you in this very difficult situation so that you can learn to overcome the wrong thinking that has led to it and to gain motivation for change. I know that this situation will lead you to an understanding that will cure the faulty thinking, and that will result in a complete change in your situation.”
I helped a couple of people who lost their jobs and became homeless on the street by helping them to get their feet on the ground first , then by connecting to the right people to find them jobs and in 2 weeks they got jobs and managed to rent single apartment and get rid of living in the street.
A desire to help often arises within us. The difference lies in how we try to help the suffering person we’ve encountered.
First we will try to help more materially, we will support the sufferer with Food, clothes, some money, bus tickets, and other material means. Then we will try to connect them with the right people , explain to the sufferer his situation, we will search with him for the erroneous thoughts which have led to this difficult situation, and we will explain to him that the world is perfectly just and creates circumstances for us in response to our own beliefs.
If they are wrong the effect will be suffering. If they are in accord with Truth, the effect will be prosperity, joy, delight, enthusiasm, and from these arises all material good. We will envision him living in prosperity, liberated from erroneous thinking, because we know that thought manifest into experience.
Unfortunately, many of us choose to be slaves to circumstances, people, limitations, conditions we were born into, etc. This has a great many negative consequences. One of the biggest consequences is the opening of ourselves to spirit attachments.
How does this work? We attract what we think and feel. So, when we think and feel thoughts of self-pity and live with a victim mentality, we attract to ourselves thoughts and feelings that often come from the spirits of deceased people who felt sorry for themselves and others during their life on earth. This allowed the spirits to shift responsibility for their fate from themselves to others, circumstances and the world. Instead of trying to control their own thoughts, they resigned themselves to what happened to them.
Spirits now have a great need for energy, which they do not receive from any source. So they wander around looking for physical people whom they can approach and steal at least a little energy from. People who have a tendency to self-pity will attract them like a magnet, as their frequency matches.
What is often the basis of close relationships between people? One of the biggest foundations on which relationships are built is a sense of similar interests, similar emotions and similar thoughts. The same applies to spirit attachments. When such a grieving spirit comes to us we don’t see them as a threat, more as a partner in suffering. It is ultimately someone who shares deeply with us our own worldview.
You might say well how about opposite will attract too, and that’s fine, it usually never last too long, this kind of attraction based on lust, need, greed, and if it will last , that’s because one is in strong need to the opposite for a reason only he or she knows.
Such a lack of attention to one’s own thoughts and emotions leads us down life’s dangerous paths, narrow and strewn with sharp protruding rocks. It is much better to stop in such a situation and start thinking more and more about our own beliefs and emotions. This is the only way out of the trap we have fallen into. It is not an easy path, it requires a lot of mental effort, but it is the only way out.
The spiritual, emotional and social levels of positivity are also important. Thinking positive thoughts and visualizing positive outcomes will give you the strength and motivation to attract positive events. Prophet Mohammed said
( tafalo belkhair tajedooh) it means be optimistic in your life and what you do and you shall find what you are seeking, you be more successful, less stressed out, doors will open up for you.
It is not an easy task to do, as 90% of the information we received daily from people, media and the bad and fake news are highly negative. Everyone is trying to influence others and brainwash them. As a result, our minds are plagued by pessimistic and stressful thoughts.
But don’t let the negativity divert you from achieving your life’s goal. Your mind is more powerful than you think and with the right mindset you can attract prosperity, health, opportunities, good people, health, and good relationship in your life.
The 21 century has seen an increase in poor mental health and negativity, and that is because of the negative information, fake news, bead people who hurt others, and the defocus of human from God and his plan. Our brain actively processing information in our dream while we sleep, he rejects and blocked some and store some memories and data.
Think well and will attract good, do good and hopefully you will get good. So we must optimizing our mind before we go to sleep , cleanse ourselves from negative thoughts, anger and learn to relax before we go to bed so our brain do its job and balanced way and to attract positivity in the way.
Determine to find positivity in your everyday life. Starts with a smile, act of kindness to a person or a pet.
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Dr Saad Ramzi Al Hashimi – Alberta- Canada