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Myth and culture ;The threat of disrepute, and what happens when people face it, fascinated medieval writers. In poems and prose, they showed legendary heroes – and occasionally, versions of themselves – cannily rescuing their reputations.
Reputation mattered to medieval people a great deal, in many ways more than to us today. They were concerned about what could happen to their public standing; to people at the time, both glory and infamy seemed to move as fast as the wind.
And just as today we usually understand how unreliable public opinion is, so did people in the past. Anyone in the Middle Ages with a decent classical education knew that Latin fama meant both the positive kind of renown gained for great deeds, and mere rumour.
In the Latin epic Aeneid, a popular medieval school text, Virgil depicted ‘Fama’ as a horrible feathered monster covered in many tongues, mouths and ears. She doesn’t sleep, but flies through the night screeching and terrifying cities with her mix of facts and crooked lies. So how do you fight rumour, the beast that never rests?
The mythic hero Beowulf faces the challenge of overcoming his youthful notoriety when he arrives at Hrothgar’s hall announcing his plan to rid the Danes of their pesky cannibal infestation , the monster Grendel – or die trying.
The situation is politically awkward: Grendel’s midnight snacking on warriors has made Hrothgar’s headquarters uninhabitable, and the news of the great king’s failure to protect his people has spread as far as Sweden. But Beowulf’s reputation, and it isn’t all good, has preceded him. The word has gotten around that he is a blowhard, taking foolish risks and making promises he can’t fulfil.
Unferth, one of Hrothgar’s courtiers, bristles at the thought of another man enjoying more glory than he does. He tries to bring Beowulf down by recalling a swimming contest between the would-be hero and his boyhood friend Breca. As Unferth puts it, the two jeopardised their lives at sea for a week and, in the end, Breca won and Beowulf had to eat his words. Continue Reading →
My mother Holy book and the black stone; Without light, you slowly rotten from the inside, without God you allow the dark energy to seep into your body and it will reflect on your behaviour as a human. You do not notice it at first because the evil one work silently and relentlessly to coarse your spirit by getting you in his darkness.
Your brain and mind knows the truth and you have a choice to decide but you always follow the temptation and ignore the obvious and the danger, you let it go until it is too late. Then you will be noticing the change in your personality with increasing temperament, anger, fear, lack of patience, greed, lies, negative disrespectful personality, driven to lust and self destructive behaviors.
Leaving those who truly love you and care for you because you think that there is no romance and sparks, there is no chemistry and common interests between you and it is all the work of the devil to distant you away from the good people toward lust and self destruction.
The created universe is made of 68 % of dark energy, and 27% of dark matters their power lies in their ability to go unnoticed, like the black halls. The stars, suns, moons and all other planets make about 5% of the seen universe and the human been make about 0.03% and that is a scientific fact.
Up to 60% of the human adult body is water. According to H.H. Mitchell, Journal of Biological Chemistry 158, the brain and heart are composed of 73% water, and the lungs are about 83% water. The skin contains 64% water, muscles and kidneys are 79%, and even the bones are watery: 31%.
Males of average height have about 4 grams of iron in their body, females about 3.5 grams.
Heavier elements were mostly produced much later, inside of stars. Hydrogen and helium are estimated to make up roughly 74% and 24% of all baryonic matter in the universe respectively.
Considering that this is a nuclear physics discussion, you might have guessed that the answer comes from the nuclear properties of iron. It happens that iron, and its closest neighbors, have the largest “binding energy” out of the 7000 different Isotopes.
Binding energy is simply the amount of energy we need to give to the atomic nucleus to break it apart into the protons and neutrons it’s made of. High binding energy means it’s harder to break this nucleus; it simply prefers to stay the way it is. On the other hand, a nucleus with low binding energy will be easily transformed into a different nuclear species, a different isotope or even a different element. In nature, this translates into having more of a particular type of element (high binding energy) and less of another (low binding energy).
Iron and its neighbors (elements between 22-30) occupy the top 38 places in the binding-energy ranking . And this basic nuclear property affects the stellar processes that create elements in the Universe. As a result, the heaviest stars will create an iron core in their centers, but never go beyond that. A lot of the stellar processes will end around iron, and therefore matter accumulates in the form of iron or its neighbors.
I think that the dark energy and dark matters in the universe are a small mini / microscopic sub particles I called (VACUUM PARTICLES) smaller than helium.
When you turn on the light in your room the darkness disappears at once, the darkness do not stay and go slowly but it will go away. That’s why in the presence of God and his angels the darkness and the devil will be gone; otherwise they will be dead and destroyed.
When the light switched off the source of that energy is gone but the light photons and the energy of that light still linger on, it loses energy and they become invisible light I called it dark energy.
This dark energy almost 2 third of the universe is telling me that once the 2 third of the angels who are light fought and defeated ,those who followed the devil which was third of the angels ( falling angels) and that the dark matters was a result of the defeated negative energy.
I believe that one day human will discover that most of the dark energy is positive energy and dark light, darkened photons. And that the most of dark matter are in fact a negative energy sub particles. Some of those particles can turn on and off from positive to negative and vise versa. ( Steve Ramsey)
I had a dream once back in 1973 ,I dreamt that 2 angels came to me holding my hands one from each hand pulling me nicely and telling me that God want to talk to you . I was so afraid I told them please leave me but they took me and I saw a large cloud in the sky came and stood over us and then God spoke from behind the clouds and told me WHY I LEFT MY PRAYERS AND MY WORSHIP TO HIM? The sound was an amazing power with light and thunder coming from the cloud.
How you know God that I left my prayers? (I did stopped and quiet my worship and prayers to him for a while at that time).
I know everything, I see and hear everything, and the voice answered me.
Then they asked me to go back, so I ran so fast and jumped a fence and hide under a tree. When I look up at the tree I saw golden apples so I took one and put it in my pocket and kept going in this new garden.
My dad told me that it is my guilt and subconscious mind trying to tell you that I did something wrong and that I must go back to the prayers. My mother told me God truly can speak to us in a dream or other ways and she believe that it is God who said that. So went back to my prayers and worship until this day.
I asked my Mom how about the fence and the golden apple, she said jumping a fence means that I will travel and leave my country which I did and immigrated to Canada.
The golden apple she said it indicates success, and bountiful rewards are, apple also is a test of our faith, as Adam and Eve was tempted by it. Gold is glitter of life, and the jumping fence also means that I will pass my test and overcome all obstacles, my mother said. She was great dreams analyzer and she helps me to become one too.
In time I did overcome my Anxiety, fear, and self-doubt when I moved to Canada and started from scratch, learned the language and gained the experience and all the degrees I wanted to get and accomplished my dreams. Every time I feel sad and lonely I remember my mother and her advice, her protection and guidance and it made feel better and push back the dark forces as hope ,love and kindness is part of the positive light that push all the dark energy that overwhelm our thoughts and cloud our thinking .
I remembered my mother room and her small side table where she used to put her Holy book on the top and small dark stone in the second shelf. She used to say that the holy book is God light, God words, and the dark stone is represent our bad deeds ,our heart of stone ,and she reminded me that we must always go with the light ,and avoid the devil so we don’t be like him . In time about few years the dark stone became little white in color!
I asked my mother where is the dark stone. She said still in the same place!
No mom, this is white stone! I am looking for the dark one. My mother said after many days of prayers and worshipping God I hold the stone and send blessing to it, as the stone is part of God creation too.
In time when God accept your worship his blessings spells over everything and change it, that when you know you are increased in faith and you are in God side when you start changing yourself to be good things around you change too. Continue Reading →
By now we know that Biden is won the election in the US, but Trump still in shock, denial, and refused the result! God is the one who make the plans, people are voting and the plan of the master will be the one that Guide the nation. The sore losers sometimes lose self-respect and in time they will recognize the grave danger of their behaviour and the people who died and will die as a result of this action.
After an election, people focus on who won and who lost. But, like all worldly events, the memory and significance of who won and lost fades over time. We may not care too much of what happened 100 years ago and in 100 years they may not care about us either. But what does matter for eternity is if we save or lose our souls.
[Quran 9:71] The believing men and women are allies of one another. They advocate righteousness and forbid evil, they observe the Contact Prayers (Salat) and give the obligatory charity (Zakat), and they obey GOD and His messenger. These will be showered by GOD’s mercy. GOD is Almighty, Most Wise.
[Quran 39:15] “Therefore, if you worship whatever you wish besides Him.” You will be the loser, Say, “The real losers are those who lose their souls, and their families, on the Day of Resurrection.” Most certainly, this is the real loss.
Do we want to be winners for eternity? What are we going to do today to be among the winners?
What are the main differences between “winners” and “losers”?
WINNERS ARE LOSERS
When you lose, you learn and that’s an important part of your psychological development. The biggest winners have lost the most times. This is because winners will get out of their comfort zone and takes risks. Winners actually make the most mistakes, but they learn from those mistakes, and that’s what gets them closer to winning. If you never put yourself out there, if you never take risks, if you’re not prepared to lose… you’ll never win! When the department I used to work in wanted to do something different I started introducing something new that help to generate money and i was in the process of learning and improving my skill curve, but as always the manager did not understand that this is new thing and that I am not Einstein ,so the manager started pointing fingers, and not facts and criticize every step until I got discouraged and stopped doing that specific exam .
The clerks were under lots of stress as the demands was high for that exam ,and they can not find anyone to do it , I was the only one who was able to do it and was improving daily until it was too much red tapes , all the other workers have no clues about the exam and dont want to do it, so they lost the revenue and the person who was willing to do his best and start something new.
The department lost this revenue and lost those patients , and later I left them and they have to train the techs to learn new skills and do the exams that in everybody interest and helping patients.
If you don’t know what you want, you cannot win in life. How can you measure your success if you haven’t set any goals? If you don’t know where you are going, you are just swimming around in circles. Winners are focused. They know what they want and, most importantly, they know why they want it. All the most successful people I’ve met in life have a big “why” behind everything they do. Know what you want and why you want it, and you will be half way to winning.
WINNERS ALWAYS PLAY LIKE THEY ARE WINNING
If you play like you have already lost, you literally cannot win. You must play like you are winning, even when you are technically behind. You never know what might happen.
Winners don’t play like they are losing, nor do they let the past define them. Winners don’t look backward. Many people get put down in life, even bullied. Those who are able to shake off the past and keep moving forward are winners. Those who let their past define them, believing they don’t deserve to win simply because of how badly someone else has treated them, only lose again if they can’t get out of that self-loathing mindset. You have to address whatever is holding you back and break free of your past.
When you have high self-worth, you believe you are worth investing in. I have spoken to many people who say they want to improve their lives, but are not willing to invest in the education and tools that would help them. I’ve always invested money in my own development and education, and I’ve seen great results.
WINNERS PRACTICE PATIENTLY
When you allow yourself to fail, you learn. Winners do not expect to achieve something without practice. They practice patiently; they take the time to practice. I always get frustrated by people who come to Trading College with a get-rich-quick attitude; I have to explain to them that it takes a lot of time, practice and patience to get good at trading.
You cannot have a big ego if you want to be a winner because your ego will be crushed when you lose like what you see with Trump, and, going right back to the first point… WINNERS ARE LOSERS!
You have to leave your ego at the door if you want to win in life, or you will never get past your first loss.It is ok to go throw the Shock, Denile, and Anger but you have to remember that people are waiting and thier life will be in danger if you dont get on with it and let the past go and then focus on the future. each period of shock and denial has time limit but anger issue might stay with you for long time if you dont conduct yourself in a professional manor and let go.
Deuteronomy 31;6 “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.”
Colossians 3;23-24“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.”
2 timothy 2;5 “Similarly, anyone who competes as an athlete does not receive the victor’s crown except by competing according to the rules.”
Philippians 2;3 “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.”
Psalm 139 -24 “Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.”
Life is too short to be angry all the time.People who let thier anger define them and linger in the anger for more than usual have no emotional intelligence, it is ok to be angry but you have to come with the term of your lost. You have to be polite, respectful.kind, and recognize that if you lost a battle it doesn’t mean that you lost the war. You have to change your course and direction, make new strategy and adopts to new tactics. True leader dont elinetae but unify . Continue Reading →
One of my blog readers asked me a question about human chemistry, and attraction? And why his beautiful friends Connie like him as a friend and not more than that?
He added that she told him many time that she have no romantic feeling toward him and can’t do more than to be a friend, He love her so very much and asked me what to do. I found myself digging into the books, history and the human psychology in the holly books and this is my answer.
The true love should be directed to God only, and all other loves are of the flesh, lust, temptation or to make a foundation of a family and partnership. To be a partner in any situation you must have similar likes and dislike, same goal, and personality that attract to each other throw mutual respect, dignity, compassion, and of course romantic feeling if the partnership was for marriage or love. We are attracted to vibration throw looks, sound, behaviors, and statue.
She might not like the way you look, maybe you are overweight or not in shape, maybe she don’t like your teeth or part of your body part, maybe she done like your personality or political ideology. She or he has made their mind about the person who wants to be with.
In the animal Kingdom, birds, fish, and insects, the male goes through many difficulties to attract the female, you see the male species more beautiful , have gorgeous feathers, and colors, beautiful sound and voice . Or strong body, big horns, good fighters, etc.
The idea is to stand out in the crowd, to be the prime among the rest. This is also true in the human specious. The only different that some human select those who are kind, generous, helpful, faithful, truthful, handyman, good father image, and then they look after other sexual points.
Using The miracle of Quran and Torah and its numerical value of 137 as a “coupling constant” between Quran, Torah and science, delves into the cutting-edge theories of modern physics, such as complementarity, uncertainty, the expanding universe, entanglement and CPT symmetry to reveal their miracle significance exploring elements of the standard model of physics through the prism of the holy books that reveals a complete spectrum of insights into both realms – and even suggests new avenues for scientific investigation.
How do 137 determine human lifespan and couple the body with the soul to give life? How does this relate to the role of women in society, the power of communication and the power of music and chemistry? I will write about this subject soon.
The chemistry you are talking about in science term is the scientific discipline involved with elements and compounds composed of atoms, molecules and ions: their composition, structure, properties, behavior and the changes they undergo during a reaction with other substances.
This is true when a female look at you, she look into your eyes, smiles and lean toward you and that is attraction for starters. They will check your feeling and disciplines, your body is the atom, your personality and attitude is the inner ions, as many ladies do not like a rude men and men with bad attitude. Then they look into your work, what you do and what they will feel when they are with you, do you make them feel important, wanted, romantic, loved, satisfied, number one, faithful to them.
Or do you lie, show no interests, lazy, and have bad behaviors and addictions. They want a man who can communicate and give them time and share feeling and most importantly a great listener .Otherwise if you don’t fit they will feel that the relationship will drift away, or they will be living with you in a nutshell. Many women assume something based on previous relationship and they do not give a chance to someone who is trying so hard to win her heart. The best thing is to let go and be a friend as the attraction is not solid for her and she do not feel any vibration and connection to you. Continue Reading →
A Stone has a single unit, water has 2 unit, Fire has three units of life. Air has four units of life. Space has five units of life. Trees have six units of life. Animals have seven units of life. Human beings have eight units of life. Prophets and men of God have 9 units of life, and even more it depends on the daily worship to God and love of God and the degree of faith for God in them.
When we die we become more powerful in some way. We go between nine and ten units of life. This is strange, but true. The Quran mentioned that when we die we can see clearly, be more wise and certain and wishes to go back and undo the bad things we done in our life.
The moment your body is dead, the spirit has become free, without boundaries, and nothing can stop it. The spirit moves around freely. If it is bound in the body, you have only eight units of life, you can only reach out to some. When you have nine units, you have a little more power, but if you die, then you have access to the ninth and tenth units, so you gain much more access to the planet. More faith and worship to God you had and more love to him more blessing you will get to your soul and more ability to see the truth.
The spirit, freed from the limited body, can know; can cognize; can ask God to bless us and guide us. We can feel their presence sometimes. So when you pray to them, they can grant you certain wisdom and warning and it could be in form of a dream. They are able to bestow unto you to whatever extent they are powerful.
Our mind is just a projection of our soul. It is like the dream is the shadow of the sleep. Sure there are lots of chemical process involve in our sleep and the dream, so it is the case with the mind and the soul.
Soul is your whole consciousness, the life force in you. God is the only one who give it, take it and know it and no one else does.
The part of it which is listening to me right now, which is asking the question, which is thinking and analyzing g we call it the mind.
So if your mind is elsewhere, though I’m speaking and the words are falling into your ear drums, still you don’t get it because the mind is elsewhere. So it’s through the mind that we see, smell, taste, hear, and experience the sense of touch. That is what the mind is. It is all that chemical process.
The mind has another function which we call intellect. As I’m speaking, something in you is saying, “Yes, I agree”, or, “No, I don’t agree with this”. There is something in you who is accepting and rejecting, judging and accommodating that is the intellect.
There are 10 layers to our existence:
1- Before we created God knows we will be, that stage I call it before creation
2- The Body and the embryological forms as God taught us in the Quran and different stages
3- Our breath
4- Our mind with the conscious and unconscious mind, emotion
6- Our memory
7- Our ego
8- The Qareens (the entity within the human body) as mentioned in the Quran some call it guardian angel, some call it the self, and it is always different than the body and the soul.
9- The time, the linear dimension in this earth
10- Our soul.
See, we keep breathing but many of us don’t even know that we are breathing unless we have an asthma attack or some problem. We don’t realize how important it is for us to breathe deeply.
There is something in you that doesn’t change, which is the reference point for all changes. Your thoughts are changing, your emotions are changing, and your body has undergone so much change.
We change in time, we age, that non-changing aspect in you, or the reference by which you recognize the changes so to say ‘this is changing’, there should be something that doesn’t change, and that is what the soul is, also the Qareens.
Worship and prayers (Salat) to God is the journey from movement to stillness, from sound to silence. Salat is translates as relationship in Arabic, the relationship between you and God in vertical way from your soul to him, while you mind and body do the horizontal action and other action of thinking and reading. Continue Reading →
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